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8 Women Share The Kindest Thing A Friend Ever Did For Them

While calling someone your friend isn’t as significant as it used to be (thanks, Facebook…), true-blue friends will do basically anything for each other. These meaningful gestures will remind you what BFFs are made of.

Gave me a fresh start

“I was a struggling alcoholic in a 30-day treatment center. My husband had been trying to support me emotionally and financially and keep up the house, but it was a lot to handle. My friends stepped in to tidy up my home so that when I returned it was a clean, fresh start for me.” —Sheila Swanson McIntyre, Centennial, CO

Dropped everything to support me

“After my mom passed away, the funeral and burial were held less than 72 hours later in New Jersey, where she had lived for most of her life. My two best friends from high school immediately dropped their plans and drove several hours each way to be with me. I would never have anticipated how much their support would mean.” —Lori Saitz, Arlington, VA

Let me vent

“I was having a particularly hard day, so my friend Lauryn dropped her plans and invited me over after work. She set the table with beautiful candles and had pizza and adult coloring books. We colored for hours, she let me vent, and I ate pretty much all of the pizza. Lauryn had her own hands full at the time, which made it an even kinder gesture. Greatest friend ever.” —Mary Pavlu, New York City

Helped me achieve a major goal

“I had watched Oprah struggle with her weight over the years, so when she finally dropped the pounds and ran a marathon with the help of her trainer Bob Greene, I latched on to the idea that if I had someone to run alongside me—ideally, him—I could finish a marathon, too. Terri said, ‘It doesn’t matter whether he says yes or no; I’ll train and run the marathon with you.’ Eight months later, Terri and I stood on the starting line of our first marathon in Duluth, Minnesota.” —Marcia Noyes, San Antonio, TX 

Became my family

“I had three miscarriages after the birth of my oldest child, so I turned to adoption. During the process, I found out I was pregnant, but I still went through with adopting my son. Five months later, my daughter was born and we felt like our family was complete. Then I got a call from my attorney saying that my son’s birth mom was pregnant again. For a minute I considered adopting the child but was not prepared for a fourth. I put my friend Wendy, who was also having trouble conceiving, in touch with the birth mom and stepped back completely. She and her husband ended up adopting my son’s brother. It was almost as amazing as us adopting him!” —Roberta Perry, Bethpage, NY

Gave me a much-needed break

“I still cherish this kindness that happened 20 years ago: My friend Susan spent 4 hours each way on the train so she could watch my young children—one of whom had chicken pox—while I got my hair done. My husband was in the hospital, and she knew I needed a bit of ‘me’ time.”  —Joy Rains, Bethesda, MD 

Showed up when I needed help most

“Four years ago on Thanksgiving, I had pneumonia, no car, and no food. I was living in a rural area without public transportation and was miles from the closest store. Rose, my landlord’s facility manager whom I became friends with about 6 months earlier, showed up in her pajamas with a huge plate of food. She said she was getting ready for bed and couldn’t stop thinking of me. The next week, she loaned me her car so I could go to the doctor and do some grocery shopping. A lot of people will say, ‘Tell me what you need.’ Rose saw what I needed, and she helped without being asked. That is a true friend.” —Becky Blanton, Washington, DC

Helped me make ends meet

“When I got my first apartment and was working two jobs to pay my rent, my friend Lynne gave me her jar of coins. She didn’t have a lot of extra money at the time and kept the coin jar to treat herself when it got full. Twenty-five years later, her unexpected gesture still sticks with me.” —Maria Vizzi, Bronx, NY

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