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10 Reasons Which Unveil As To Why Best Buddies Become Distant And Unapproachable

Why We Lose Friends

It has happened with almost everybody, is that you lose friends as you grow up, all of them, one by one. No matter how much you shared together but as you step into adult life, all of them disappear. This is probably why.

  • Priorities change. Work forms as an integral part of growing up and you are forced to spend more time at work. It leaves you with less or no time to meet friends, who were once your world. It’s only later in life that you realize that you have moved far and life is incomplete without them.

Why We Lose Friends

  • We tend to forget the fact that friendships can’t always be effortless. Making friends is easy, but maintaining friendship is hard part. Hanging out with them in college was quite easy purely because of convenience. As life moves on, the friendship fades away and we accept it, instead of fighting for it or making efforts.

Why We Lose Friends

  • Sometimes, Love ruins friendships. When one of the two friends finds love, friendship takes a back seat. They realize it much later but things are never the same. We all have gone through the same

Why We Lose Friends

  • 20s are always a tough time and all of us are trying to prove something to ourselves and the world. But each of us gets settled down eventually on different strata’s. When two guys who started from the same point find themselves at crossroads, diffidence creeps in. You soon start wandering away because their presence in your life makes you feel more despondent.

Why We Lose Friends

  • We always seek for the support and confidence in our friendships. Our friends know us the best, often more than our family? But many a times, even our friends don’t support our life decisions. And that’s when it becomes difficult to be around them, when their judgments become too tart and intolerant.

Why We Lose Friends

  • With some friends, it’s like you’re the one making all the efforts. So, you don’t want to be ‘the clingy friend’ and you let it go. We all are alike and would prefer to lose such friends than be the one doing more.

Why We Lose Friends

  • Some friends give you great time but they’re also toxic with negative influence on your personality. There comes a point in life when you finally realize about their bad influence. And its then you decide that you’re better off without them.

Why We Lose Friends

  • Possessiveness is one more reason as sometimes it is difficult for lot of people to acknowledge that their friends have made new friends. Being replaced or ranked second is a terrible feeling, but it happens and it happens to the best of us. Possessiveness makes you bitter and its best to let the friendship go.

Why We Lose Friends

  • Sometimes, you just feel that things which bonded you together don’t exist in your life anymore. Both of you have changed as a person. Sometimes, you meet a friend after a long and realize they are so immature. The tête-à-tête becomes glaringly forced and that’s the moment you know, the friendship’s is over.

Why We Lose Friends

  • Its kind of funny how we shut ourselves from our dearest friends and years later, when we’re going through old pictures on we wonder as to what went wrong. You both never opened to communication and you brushed it under the carpet, they never talked about it too and slowly, the friendship died a slow death.

Why We Lose Friends

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